'Booze had her by the throat'
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- - March 4, 2013 at 21:22:36
I did not know Christine, but I do know Dean. I remember the day he told me about Christine's death. I am out of province but have known Dean for a few years now. He was very supportive and sympathetic to Christine's plight. The system did fail her, there is not a doubt in my mind. If we all had the compassion and big heart that Dean has, the world would be a better place. Step up to the plate Nfld. Keep the pressure on your provincial government to implement changes. This death was preventable had their been proper intervention. Just because someone suffers from addiction does not mean they are disposable.
- - July 27, 2012 at 14:43:19
I shared a room at the detox center with Chrissy, she suffered from the disease of addiction and i know she fought for her life, she wanted to do what was best for her and her family, I had many conversations with Chrissy and at first it was a choice to pick up that first drink, But for some one is to many and a thousand is never enough. I am living a clean life right now but i will always be an addict no matter how much clean time I have, and I.m speaking from experience the system is failing addicts over and over again. I have many story's that i could tell about how i was treated at hospitals and how hard it is once u leave a rehab or detox and have to go right back to the people place's and things that slowly but surely sucks u back in. Every addict needs a program just as every diabetic needs their insulin. ADDICTION IS A DISEASE !
- - May 9, 2012 at 19:12:50
WAKE UP EASTERN HEATH! OUR PROVINCE NEEDS SO MUCH WHEN IT COMES TO SUPPORT SYSTEMS AND FACILITIES TO HELP OUR YOUNG AND OLD ALIKE. ANYONE CALL FALL INTO AN ADDICTION SITUATION AND ONCE IT TAKES HOLD OF YOU, ITS A LONG AND WINDIING ROAD BACK TO NORMALITY. I WAS A CLIENT OF CHRITISNE'S AND ITS TRUE SHE WAS AN AMAZING PERSON FULL OF ENERGY AND LIFE AND ITS HORRENDOUS TO SEE THAT ALL SHE NEEDED WAS HELP AND THE SYSTEM FAILED HER AND ALL HER FAMILY. I DON'T KNOW DEAN , BUT YOUR LOVE FOR HER MUST BE STRONG AND I HOPE YOU FIND THE STRENGTH TO CONTINUE TO BE HER VOICE AND HELP OTHERS IN THE SAME SITUATION. FOR SURE SHES SO PROUD OF ALL YOUR ACCOMPLISHING- GETTING THE WORD OUT. MAY SHE REST IN PEACE.
- M Power
- - May 6, 2012 at 20:52:39
So sorry for your loss of a beautiful person. I too lost my brother last year 36 hours after he was sent home from the Waterford Hospital Crisis Unit with Trazodone as a sleep aid and a card to see his gp in 1-2 weeks. He did not have drinking or drug problems but had a history of depression and bipolar 14 years previous. He held a job and friends but did not feel well and told the GP he saw his history and he "felt hopeless, helpless...could not go on like this and could not live like this anymore". He did not state he was suicidal. They did not talk to my Mom and most importantly, they did not retrieve his medical file which was offsite, as the GP "did not want to inconvienence him". They did not realize he was bipolar and possibly in a mixed state, and Trazodone is actually a anti-depressant, and extreme caution should be used in bipolar as it can cause a bipolar switch or rapid cycling...going from depressed to manic. He went to work for two days and on his lunchbreak drove to his cabin and committed suicide. My family is devastated as I'm sure Ms Pearces family is as well. Eastern Health and the Mental Health and Addictions services completly are failing people and their families no matter if it is a addiction problem or mental health issue. As Ms Pearce also battled depression, I wonder how much the drug Trazodone may also have effected her illness and alcoholism. Please Mr. Cantwell, don't drop this as my family have also pressured Eastern Health and continue to do so. Hopefully we can make them see they have to improve their system as it is not working and costing us our loved ones lives.
- - May 6, 2012 at 11:11:00
After reading what I have read here on this site I want to say to you Dean that you and your family are an amazing bunch of family supporters. It is the type of support that you are giving each other today in telling Chrissy's story posthumously, after you did everything while she was alive to obtain the services that were required to make her well. You have now taken upon Chrissy's cause posthumously on how difficult it was for her and for others to get the type of Medical assistance one needs to overcome addictions. If the government is listening your family's guidance should be followed by them so that they can implement the types of counselling and medical care that is badly needed to treat people like Chrissy.
- - May 6, 2012 at 00:54:46
This really is UNREAL. how many more deaths, tragedies, scandals, inquiries etc do we need at eastern healthless before someone wakes up and gets rid of all their vice presidents, managers, ceo...the whole works. this is JUST NOT GOOD ENUF. i'd say wipe out all the health authorities: will save us billions long term in NL and people will then get the help they need WHEN they need it instead of having doors closed in their faces when they are sick because not enuf staff when they are TOO TOP HEAVY. we all know someone who has had a negative experience in dealing with this "great" mental health system these so called professionals have created. thoughts and prayers are with mr cantwell at this time; it really is sad when you cry out for help and cannot get it. addicts admittign they need help is over 50% of their battle (admitting-yes taking responsibility-that they need help and want to be helped). i really hope mr cantwell contionues on her voice for the thousands of others who have or are in the same situation. enough is enough NL...we NEED CHANGES...NOW!
- - May 5, 2012 at 23:37:45
Dean, Chrissy would be so pround that you are getting her story out!!! They say "proud to be a newfoundlander" but thats so hard when you know the system is failing so many people. Hopefully once her story gets out something will change, its just so sad that she had to be the one to die for this to happen. I still can't get over the fact that she is gone but she will forever have a place in my heart. I have so many memories of her but the one that stands out the most is she always had that smile, the smile that would just light up a room when she walked in and thats the memory I will hold of Chrissy forever, I am so lucky to be able to call her my friend!!! RIP beauty I love you xoxo
- lana cantwell steeples
- - May 5, 2012 at 21:10:35
I would like to first say how incredibly proud I am of my brother Dean for his never failing support of chrissy in the years they were together. he was there day and night. unfortunately this failing system has caused the spouse and family members of addict to be the only voice in their fight.so not only do they fail the patient but everyone who are fighting for them to live a healthy life. unfortunately two amazing girls have lost their mom in this tragedy ! She should have never have died. Chrissy and dean were literally begging health care professionals for help!! What more can a person do. If she were treated with humanity and respect just like any other patient walking through the door she would have received the life saving treatment she needed, the same as a cancer patient or anyone else with any other type of deases . it is a sad commentary on how they view people with addiction , somehow less than any other sick person. my heart is broken for my brother , her daughters and family and friends who have to live a life without her. lets help them fight for her now and bring change, so no one else has to feel the deep tragic loss of a beautiful young life . thank you for submitting lana cantwell steeples
- Shawna Roach
- - May 5, 2012 at 20:27:34
Good for you Dean, being my cousins voice.Stay strong.And for all you out there who are under educated or havn't ever struggled with any of these issues, it's probly best not to judge.I will miss you dearly my cousin.
- Brenda Cantwell
- - May 5, 2012 at 19:36:56
Good for you Dean!!! Alcoholism and Drug Addiction are diseases the same as Cancer and Diabetes. For people like David ignorance is bliss, and it is quite obvious they have not had to cope as a loved one struggled with such a destructive disease. Unfortunately it is too late for Christine, however by you standing up and speaking on her behalf, "being her VOICE", hopefully it will get through to the right people! If it helps just one person or one family at least her death will have some meaning!!! Stay Strong Dean, Stand up and be heard, We are behind you all the way!!!
- - May 5, 2012 at 19:09:20
As a mother to an addictive child, I know of the lack of help there is out there for addicts once they reach the age of maturity, I've had so many doors close in my face I could scream, we're talking detox, Waterford hospital, family doctor and my child's own psychiatrist that's just in a less than 24 hour period. The bottom line of it is this and that is we can't help those who don't want to help themselves, they say the help is there, but is it? Detox is a 5 day stay, then you have to try and keep the addict sober for the 10 hour drive to CornerBrook, the center won't take a patient who is high....what the capital city is lacking is a facility that has everything the addict needs under 1 roof, detox, coucelling, whatever else they need to rebuild their lives, an addict can't be expected to rebuild their lives in 20 days, the program, and lack of education in humberhood is not long enough, I can count up to 10 people who had ended their lives after humberhood, and that wasn't through media. How long more, and how many more lives have to be lost before the nl government steps in and realizes there's a huge problem in this city with drugs and alcohol addiction. I was told once through a councillor that if we as parents stopped being embarrassed by our loved ones addiction and speak up, we can only hope that one day the help will be here, and that things will change'but until then it's a fight and it's going to continue to be a fight. I pray every time my child walks through the door that I don't get a call from the morgue , and that is the harsh reality of addiction
- - May 5, 2012 at 16:11:25
David, obviously you don't understand the meaning of addiction of any kind. I really feel for this family and friends. She did need more help than that.
- Tree Walsh
- - May 5, 2012 at 15:36:20
What a sad situation. Addiction has no rhyme or reason and the pain is miserable. When we are READY for help there MUST be somewhere to turn to immediately within our Health Care System. Addictions and Mental Health services, while improving, are NOT keeping up with the need. Boom times don't trickle down as much as they trickle ON those of us in need of the much STIGMATIZED Mental Health and Addictions services.. May Crissy rest in peace....god help the rest of us!
- kim stapleton
- - May 5, 2012 at 14:26:08
christine was an amazing women , mother, daughter , friend and life partner if the system was there like they say it is she would not be were she is today she was loved by all that she came in contact with weither it was for a split second or for years.I have known her for years and she made a huge impact in my life we talked everyday if we were not out somewhere together she made me see the better person in side me . we were there for each other any time of the day or night . she was my best friend my sister i miss her so much and wish the system was there for her like they were suppose to be.
- - May 5, 2012 at 13:52:21
Seriously, the ignorant people who would write such a thing are people who have never had an addiction themselves and never had a loved one who went through an addiction! Have some compassion for someone and know that there is a long road toward addiction recovery! There is work needed to be done to improve the detox program that we have here and there is also time and compassion that needs to be given to the people who are struggling with addiction! Think before you talk about something that you don't know everything about. It's those stereotypical attitudes that make it difficult for those who are trying to come to terms and recover from their issues!!!
- Christa Coffen
- - May 5, 2012 at 12:51:10
David. If you can't be supportive, keep your comments to yourself. Honestly. You obviously do not know anyone who suffers from the DISEASE of ADDICTION. Go away. Google addiction and alcoholism, pal. Before spewing anonymous, cowardly comments. Education starts NOW for you.
- Christa Coffen
- - May 5, 2012 at 12:28:30
LONG post ahead; and probably lacking grammar as I just woke up. So pardon any mistakes ;) And I must say, this article really packs a punch. I found out a lot from this that makes this tragic loss of one of my closest ever friends (since grade one) so much more tragic and sad. --THANK YOU Dean!! for helping to raise awareness of what is lacking in this Province of ours. -- I am one of MANY of Chrissy's closest friends and I have a load to say! I am taking Chrissy's death VERY hard because I know she didn't want to die, she didn't want to be sick, she WANTED and NEEDED help;.and even with the amazing personal support system Chrissy had; said support just wasn't enough when (she) was sick with addiction. And the freakin' heath system failed her big time. It is absolutely disgusting how easy it is to get hooked on drugs here in NL. Why? (2 main reasons. In my opinion) 1) Ignorant; lazy doctors who won't do their job and just fork over the those fancy green narcotic prescription slips just to get the patient out of their office so they can get more patient$ ($ ;) 2) You can DOUBLE, triple even quadruple doctor if you really wanted to. In order to get their supply for selling and to abuse, a lot of people do this. TOO many. In Ontario it's 100% impossible to have a second doctor. Why is it so easy here in NL? Are we THAT behind? or just ignorant? Makes me sick. I lived in Ontario for 14 years, ONTARIO! and I never seen so many drug addicts (and/or recovering addicts) as I do now in Newfoundland now that I am back "home." I am almost embarrassed to BE back home actually. I'm not embarrassed of the people, I am embarrassed of the Province who fail people day after day. It has gone to hell in a hand basket because of booze and drugs (mostly) now. And to all the people out there who judge and poke fun at that "crack head" or "booze hound" you know , remember Chrissy, and think! MOST of these so called "dirty addicts" DO NOT want to be sick, and do what they do. Just like Chrissy, they feel/felt they have no where to go to get off those drugs or the bottle...so they just continue to deal with living in addiction so they can just deal with life without pain because help will never come. And that is pretty darn scary, sad and makes me infuriated with NL. SMARTEN UP NL..or I'm out of here; again. You took one of my dearest friends..I have nothing much left to stay here in NL for anyhow. Peace! LOVE YOU Chrissy. I am so sorry no one (professional) listened my babe. XO
- - May 5, 2012 at 12:12:26
I agree David Far too often in our society people don't want to take responsibility and blame "the system" for their own failures.
- - May 5, 2012 at 11:57:05
David if only it were that simple. I hope you never get caught in the web that is alcoholism. Same can be said for cigarette smoking and obesity. The issue here is how best we can help those of us in need - not judge them.
- - May 5, 2012 at 11:36:26
so sorry about your heart break. I know actually how you feel. I had a brother who was the most beautiful person inside and out. Who also lost his life due to alcohol. That was over 20 years ago. And still nothing in our system has changed. Shame! But please remember Chrissy will always be in her heart and mind. And no matter what her choices were, she still was a wonderful person. Alcohol took her, but it can't take that sweet, caring soul that she had. Please make sure for yourself, that you get some help. Just for comfort and understanding. I pray that your family gets through this, and don't let this terrible thing distroy your relationship or drift apart. You will all need each other for many years to come.. God Bless!
- So Sad
- - May 5, 2012 at 11:29:43
Mr. Cantwell - thank you for having the strength and courage to tell Chrissy's story. There are many people out there like Chrissy living with mental health issues, addictions or both. And they are not being properly cared for by the Health Care system. They are not. Politicians and Officials will try to tell you otherwise but they are not. Ask people in the trenches who are doing the work. There are some who will tell the truth about what's not working. How people are not being supported. I am truly sorry for your loss.
- - May 5, 2012 at 10:36:30
One's own hand is how one administers booze, it doesn't sneal up on you and attack. But, like everything else now, it's a great metaphorical story to deflect any personal responsiblity